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The Healing Horse, Ch. 16, Scene 6: A Mother’s Reflection

In this scene, Mama reflects on the day and what it had taught her Karen, and on what her Karen had taught her. Perhaps her little girl would someday become a dancer. Now it was a dream, but it could become a reality.

The picture is of Virginia Myers in the 1,000th production of Edison Studios. The year was 1912. The title was Dream Dances. Used with permission of the Myers Family estate and courtesy of Wikimedia Commons. (Edison Co., CC0, via Wikimedia Commons.)

 Scene 6: A Mother’s Reflection

After tucking her girl in for the night, Mama retired to her own bedroom and changed into her long flannel nightgown before slipping beneath the covers.

As she lay staring up into the dark, she thought about the day. Working up the nerve to walk from their old house, near downtown Santa Monica, all the way to the Pier had taken her Karen weeks. But look how that worked out. Now she had a horse and was brave enough to take him to Disneyland. She was learning to think for herself and to make good decisions.

After a few minutes, she realized she was too wound up to sleep, so she tiptoed to her daughter’s room and looked at her baby, again. She looked so peaceful sleeping there, all snuggled up in her bed. Mama prayed to herself and the heavens above. She wished that she could do something to keep her daughter feeling that harmony within herself, always.

“There,” she whispered, as she covered her with her down comforter and laid her arms gently on top of the covers.

She looked down at Karen one more time. In spite of all her concerns, Karen had tried and succeeded. Karen had taught Mama a very important lesson that day. She would never let her fears stop her, and maybe she did have a destiny as a dancer, impossible as that sounded.

Original Text ©2021, Karen Lynn-Chlup. All rights reserved.

The Healing Horse, Ch. 16, Scene 5: A Mother’s Promise

In this scene, Karen and Mama discuss the day, and then Mama makes a surprising promise that foreshadows what will happen later in the book.

Scene 5: A Mother’s Promise

Karen climbed the steps to the front porch of the Craftsman bungalow and let herself in. She smelled chicken soup cooking in the kitchen and took in a deep breath. That was exactly what she wanted to eat, and then she would go to bed. She heard Mama call her name, and she kicked off her shoes before going to meet her. After a big hug, they carried their bowls of soup to the dining table and sat down.

Karen told Mama all about the day, even the parts about Pegasus talking and Madame Leota’s prediction. She repeated it word for word.

In a future time not long away
You will dance and lead the way
Follow the pied piper, the dancing man
He will show you that you can.

Let no discouragement block your way
No matter what authorities say
You can dance and lead the way
You will show others that so can they.

Beware the white coats and teachers false
Stick close to your horse and teacher true
Eyes on your strengths, not on your faults
Become the one who is truly you.

Mama thought for a moment, and her eyes filled with tears, as she thought about all the discouragement her daughter would, indeed, face.

“That all makes sense to me, my Krana Layala, but it’s been a long day. We both need our sleep. But I will tell you that I will find you a dance teacher. I promise.”

 Original Text ©2021, Karen Lynn-Chlup. All rights reserved.

Tips for Moving With a Disability by Jillian Day

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If you are considering a move, then here is some advice on how to do it. It certainly got me to thinking. Do you, dear reader, have some tips on moving with a disability? Maybe you have some stories you’d like to share. If you do, then leave me a note in the comments section, and if you’d like to write a post for Whispers of Hope just say so. I’d love to hear from you.

–Karen

[Editor’s note: Jillian Day created 508Assist.org to help people all across the web make their sites accessible to individuals with disabilities. She was inspired to start 508Assist.org when a close family member, who happens to have a visual impairment, had trouble finding a dinner recipe online that he could read easily. When she’s not chasing after her little ones, Jillian enjoys being outside, whether she’s fishing, hiking, or geocaching with her family.]

 

Tips for Moving With a Disability

by Jillian Day

In general, moving can be stressful. The home-buying process can take time and requires careful consideration. Moving your belongings is another challenge, regardless if you’re moving to your forever home or a long-term rental. A disability on top of all this only furthers the difficulties; however, when you prepare for the process in advance, you can lessen the struggles.

First-Time Home Buyer Tips

If you don’t actively monitor your credit score, start now. Sites like Credit Karma and Credit Sesame offer the convenience of credit monitoring online. You can instantly access your score from multiple major credit bureaus at home.

Evaluate all aspects of your score thoroughly. If you identify any errors, initiate a dispute immediately. Try to pay off any outstanding debts before you start applying for a mortgage. Your eligibility for a better loan rate depends on your credit score, so you may want to postpone moving, if possible, until you can improve your score.

Before you start shopping for homes, determine a realistic budget. It’s easy to find a home you love, but your dreams may be crushed if it’s not in your price range. Additionally, if you take out a loan that requires too much of your monthly income, you could find yourself struggling in the future.

As a general rule, financial experts advise spending no more than 28% of your gross monthly income on your mortgage, including the cost of taxes, property insurance, and mortgage insurance.

Get all your paperwork in order that a lender might ask for, such as your income tax returns from the past two years and paystubs.

Make sure you have an experienced agent who has a solid reputation in the community. Your agent makes all the difference.

Additionally, look into any assistance programs for first-time home buyers as well as assistance programs that help with modification expenses.

Finding a Home

Before you begin your home search, make a list of your needs and desires. Make sure you consider any accommodations you require for your disability, such as a one-story home with an open floor plan.

As you look for a property, keep an open mind. Look at the home’s potential rather than its existing condition. Consider that you can make alterations to the house to make it what you need if it’s not handicap accessible.

If you need to rent while house hunting, make sure to use a website that allows you to search for accessibility. Do a little window shopping, and you’re sure to find a suitable spot where you can live comfortably until you find the perfect house.

Preparing to Move

Start decluttering your home as soon as you can, even before you’ve located a new place. In addition to the moving process, you’ll have obligations before closing that may make it difficult to get everything you need accomplished. If you start decluttering as soon as you know you’re moving, you’ll make life easier during the moving process.

Don’t wait until the last minute to hire a moving company. You can find top-quality and trustworthy movers on sites like Angi which also offers detailed reviews and ratings from previous customers.

Pack Light

If you know you’ll be doing some or most of the moving, make sure you pack boxes lightly so you can easily move them. Even if you ask someone to help or hire a moving company, packing light will make it easier for them.

Stay Organized During Packing and Unpacking

You may find organizing everything incredibly time-consuming, but you’ll save yourself time in the end.

Pack everything based on the room it’ll go in, and keep those boxes together. Go so far as to organize based on where you’ll put the items in your new home.

When you have everything prepared in advance for a big move into a new home and take one step at a time, you can reduce the stress involved and have a successful experience.

The Healing Horse, Ch. 16, Scene 4: A Revelation Under the Moon

image of a jetliner bisecting the quarter moon in a night sky

In this brief scene, little Karen’s life continues to change as her ideas about herself and what she can do in life change.

Scene 4: A Revelation Under the Moon

As Karen walked beside the deserted Christmas Eve road, the words of Pegasus and Madame Leota ran through her mind. Now, she knew that dancing would be a major part of her life, but how? With one leg and an arm paralyzed, how could she dance? How could she lead the way, and what did leading the way mean?

The roar of a jetliner far above her in the sky broke her revery, and as she watched she saw its silhouette bisect the quarter moon, and in that moment she knew that if people could fly, then she could dance.

But she needed to find a teacher.

She hurried on, so she could discuss this with Mama.

[Photo by Chris Henry on Unsplash. You can follow him at https://www.instagram.com/chrishenry/]
Original Text ©2021, Karen Lynn-Chlup. All rights reserved.

The Healing Horse, Ch. 16, Scene 3: Reflections on Disneyland, Magic, and the Future

In this scene, Karen and Pegasus reflect on the magic that happens when people accept each other as they are, and on Madame Leota’s prophecy of great things to come for Karen.

image of moonlit clouds in the sky

The image of clouds in a night sky is courtesy of WikiMedia Commons and W. Carter.
(W.carter, CC0, via Wikimedia Commons)

Scene 3: Reflections on Disneyland, Magic, and the Future

As they watched the sunset fade and the light of the moon illuminate the clouds, Karen snuggled back against Pegasus, thankful for his body heat on this chilly Christmas Eve night. Her mind went back over the day, and all that she had experienced and learned.

“You know, boy, I think if there’s one thing that sticks in my mind about this whole trip, it’s how important it is to decide what you really want to do, and then figure out how to do it.”

“I am sure you are correct, Kitten, but what about speaking up for yourself? If you had not spoken to the tram driver, we might still be waiting to get into Disneyland.”

“You’re right, Pegasus. It’s not enough to know what you want. You have to speak up. You have to advocate for yourself and others.”

“I learned something, too,” he replied. “I learned that there really are magical places in the world. You do not have to make a choice between reality and magic. Sometimes, magic is the reality.”

“You mean like in Disneyland…Yes, Disneyland has real magic in it. And you know what else I noticed? In the right place, in the right situation, even ordinary people can accept disabled people and magical horses. All day long, I kept expecting some well-meaning adult to tell me I couldn’t do something I wanted to do because of my CP. But nobody did. They all accepted me as I am.”

“It was the same for me,” Pegasus replied. “I never talk in public, but within Disneyland and its magic, I not only talked, but people listened to me and accepted me as I am.”

They watched the clouds move in the moonlight, and then together they recited what Madame Leota had told Karen:

In a future time not long away
You will dance and lead the way
Follow the pied piper, the dancing man
He will show you that you can.

Let no discouragement block your way
No matter what authorities say
You can dance and lead the way
You will show others that so can they.

Beware the white coats and teachers false
Stick close to your horse and teacher true
Eyes on your strengths, not on your faults
Become the one who is truly you.

Without another word, they walked into Pegasus’ stall. Karen removed his saddle and brushed him down. She kissed him on the cheek, and they both sighed.

He said, “It will happen, Kitten. It will all come true.”

She kissed him, again, and began her walk home.

Original Text ©2021, Karen Lynn-Chlup. All rights reserved.

The Healing Horse, Ch. 16, Scene 2: Sunset at the Ranch

In this scene, three important events occur. First, Mama shows her happiness with Karen and with how Karen is now approaching life. Second, Karen again exerts her will by asking to stay with Pegasus. Third, she recognizes that she and Pegasus need time to reflect on all that they learned during the day, that they need time to let the meaning of the events sink in.

image of sunset at topanga state park

The time of day is dusk. The sun is setting over the Pacific. Good time to reflect. Here is an image of what the sky might have looked like, as they watched the sun set over the horizon of Topanga Canyon. Thanks to WikiMedia Commons and user Jusdafax for the picture.

(User:Jusdafax, CC BY-SA 3.0 https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/3.028, via Wikimedia Commons)

Scene 2: Sunset at the Ranch

When Rocky turned off the truck engine in the parking lot at Sierra Nevada Stables, Karen opened her eyes and looked up into her mama’s face.

“Why are you crying, Mama?” she asked.

“Because I’m so proud of you, my Krana Layala. You organized this whole day as a gift to your horse. You spent the whole day in a strange place without me or anyone else to watch over you. And now you’re almost home, safe and sound.”

Karen smiled, as her mama wiped away the tears and stroked her cheek. Then Rocky cleared his throat. She got his meaning. It was getting late. She and Mama could have their moment, later. He had chores to do, now.

“Mama, let me help Rocky with Pegasus, and then I want to stay here for a while, so my horse and I can reflect on what we learned, today. I’ll walk home in a few minutes, and we can have supper together. Okay?”

Mama nodded. Karen hopped down from the pickup to the ground, and a few minutes later she waved goodby to Mama, thanked Rocky, and led Pegasus toward the barn for the night. Outside the barn door, they gazed at the pink clouds of the sunset for a few minutes.

“Let’s stay here and enjoy the beauty of the sky, while we reflect on our marvelous day,” Pegasus said.

“I’m with you on that, boy. It was a perfect day.”

Original Text ©2021, Karen Lynn-Chlup. All rights reserved.

The Healing Horse, Ch. 16: Back to the Ranch, Scene 1: Truck and Horse Trailer

In this scene, Karen and Pegasus reflect briefly on their Disneyland day, and then Karen dozes on the way home.

Scene 1: Truck and Horse Trailer

When the tram reached the parking lot, Karen got off at the same stop where she had got on in the morning. She and Pegasus stood patiently, both reflecting on the day. The sun was setting, and she looked forward to going home.

After a few minutes, she saw the big pickup truck moving slowly between the rows of parked cars. It stopped in front of them, and Mama and Rocky climbed down from the cab.

Mama hugged Karen and said, “Oy vey! My Krana Layala, I’m so glad to see you. Did you have a fun day?”

“Yes, Mama,” Karen replied. “I’ll tell you all about it on the way.”

She helped Rocky load Pegasus into the trailer, and then climbed up into the cab. She wanted to tell her Mama all about what happened, but as soon as Rocky began the trip back to Topanga Canyon, she fell sound asleep with her head in her Mama’s lap.

©2021, Karen Lynn-Chlup. All rights reserved.

The Healing Horse, Ch. 15, Scene 14: Walking to the Exit

In this scene, Karen continues speaking up for herself and taking charge of her own life. In Disneyland, this is easy. When she gets back to the real world, she will find it more difficult.

In those days, Disneyland security officers wore medieval-looking outfits with white hose, but you could identify them by the blue patch. Here is a picture of one that I found on Pinterest.

Scene 14: Walking to the Exit

Moving with the crowd, they walked back toward the parking lot. When they got to the exit, they had to go through a turnstile.

Pegasus looked at it and said, “I will never fit, Kitten.”

“Don’t worry, boy,” she replied. “Just wait right here.”

She glanced around for a minute and spotted a tall, strong-looking man in the colorful Disneyland security uniform. Once again, she spoke up for herself and was rewarded with respect and help.

“Excuse me, sir,” she said.

“Yes, ma’am,” he replied in a deep but soft voice. “May I be of service?”

She could not stop herself from grinning, when he called her ma’am.

She said, “My horse can’t go through the turnstile. Is there another way out?”

“Yes, ma’am,” he repeated. “Please follow me.”

She waved to Pegasus, who trotted over. The man led them to a gate and unlocked it for them.

“Thank you so, so much.” Karen said, as they walked through the gate to the tram stop.

“You’re very welcome, princess. You have a nice evening. Would you like me to wait with you?”

“That would be very nice of you, but you really don’t have too!” Karen said appreciatively.

The man took it upon himself to wait with them, but did not say anything more. After a few minutes, a tram arrived, and Karen rode in it while Pegasus trotted beside her back to the parking lot.

Original Text ©2021, Karen Lynn-Chlup. All rights reserved.

The Healing Horse, Ch. 15, Scene 13: The Parade

The day is ending. Mama and Rocky had promised to pick up Karen and Pegasus after the four o’clock parade, so the little girl and her horse watch the parade, and then head for the exit. Along the way, they recall some words of wisdom from the Disney movie Pinocchio. “When you wish upon a star…”

This song was originally written for the movie, but has since become a Disney icon, loved around the world. The words and music were by Ned Washington and Leigh Harline. They wrote the the words and music for Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs, too. Don’t you love these wonderful stories and their empowering messages? Here is a link to the Wikipedia article about Ned Washington and Leigh Harline: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/When_You_Wish_Upon_a_Star

Image of parade at Disneyland

And, here is an image of what the parade might have looked like, as Disney characters marched to the tune of a brass band. Thanks to Bernard Spragg. NZ from Christchurch, New Zealand, CC0, via Wikimedia Commons for the photo.

Scene 13: The Parade

When they reached the Disneyland Railroad Station, Karen looked up at the huge clock on the tower.

“Oh my goodness, Pegasus, it’s almost four o’clock. Mama said she and Rocky would pick us up after the four o’clock parade. Let’s go to the Town Square so we can see it go by.”

They hurried to the square and joined the crowd of excited children and families. After a few minutes, they heard music in the distance. A band played the theme song from the Mickey Mouse Club television show, and the music got louder.

“I can see them, now, Kitten,” Pegasus said. “Climb up on my back so you can see, too.”

Karen scrambled up into her saddle, and from there she could see over the heads of the people in the crowd.

“I see them, Pegasus! Mickey and Minnie and Donald and lots of other Disney characters are leading a marching band. And Cinderella is standing on a float behind the band.”

“Yes!” Pegasus said. “I can see it, now, too. Look at those beautiful horses!”

They watched in awe as their favorite Disney characters paraded to the tune of Disney songs. After a few minutes, the parade disappeared into the distance, and the crowd broke up.

“Oh, boy,” Karen said, “That was great. What did you think?”

Pegasus replied, “I especially liked seeing Jiminy Cricket. Can you guess why?”

Karen thought for a minute and then said, “I think so, boy.”

She took a deep breath and sang:

“When you wish upon a star, makes no difference who you are
Anything your heart desires will come to you
If your heart is in your dream, no request is too extreme
When you wish upon a star as dreamers do…”

“That’s my girl,” he replied. “Now, let’s go find your Mama.”

Original Text ©2021, Karen Lynn-Chlup. All rights reserved.

Disabilities in Politics: Kickstart Your Campaign by Jillian Day

[Editor’s note: Jillian Day created 508Assist.org to help people all across the web make their sites accessible to individuals with disabilities. She was inspired to start 508Assist.org when a close family member, who happens to have a visual impairment, had trouble finding a dinner recipe online that he could read easily. When she’s not chasing after her little ones, Jillian enjoys being outside, whether she’s fishing, hiking, or geocaching with her family.

Disabilities in Politics: Kickstart Your Campaign

by Jillian Day

Maggie Hassan, Michael Bennet, Cyrus Habib — what do these political figures have in common? They are all people with disabilities! Whether it be blindness, autism, or limb disorder, people with disabilities are becoming more and more prominent in the political world. This is great news because these individuals bring a unique insight into how the world treats those who are a bit different.

It’s all about marketing.

Anytime you want to promote yourself, marketing is key. As an up-and-coming public figure, you will need to refine your image early on. While you don’t have to follow the same ultra-strict regulations as the British Royal family, maintaining consistency in the public is important. Voters don’t tend to take well to wishy-washy politicians, so make sure you’re out and about, handing out flyers and meeting people in the community. You should also invest some money in good business cards that let voters know you’re serious about this run (this guide can help you choose the right card size depending on your style and preference).

You need help.

Speaking of marketing, you’ll need a campaign manager and a few other helping hands to make sure you present yourself in the best possible light. Your campaign manager will, among other things, handle public relations and act as a political advisor. You can hire someone part-time or full-time, but make your selection based on experience and charisma. Another important person on your campaign team is an accountant. You will need someone to handle payroll and scheduling, ideally using traceable software. They will need to handle everything from mobile timesheets for your staff to paying your vendors on time. Your time tracking software should also integrate with your other programs, like a payroll platform, and allow you to handle common tasks from anywhere.

Your first run is more about exposure.

In the days of Instagram and TikTok, you might think that one viral campaign is all you need to become a public figure. Unfortunately, this type of fame is often fleeting. If you want to truly connect with your potential voters, you have to take steps to become a public figure. This might include sharing your history and telling your story. Most importantly, be yourself, and let the voters get to know the real you.

Social media is the megaphone of today.

Just because you can’t rely on social media to propel you toward instant success doesn’t mean that the sites don’t have value. You absolutely have to use social media, including Facebook, YouTube, and LinkedIn, to get your name out into the public’s eye. But be careful! Even the highest office in the nation isn’t immune to social media snafus that alter perception.

Talk about your disability.

Disabilities used to be quite a taboo topic. But today, most folks are understanding that people with disabilities are every bit as capable as everyone else. But make sure to use identity-first language. And if you’re going to discuss your disability as a catalyst for change, try to keep the conversations positive. While negativity tends to make the 6 o’clock news, it is your upbeat attitude that will stick in people’s minds.

As a person with a disability, you are uniquely positioned to bring issues to light that your community may not even know exist. But you can’t do it alone. Make sure to find the right team, and then take other steps to put yourself front and center to political success. Most importantly, remember that this might not mean an immediate win. It takes time to market yourself so that, like those before you, you can make a difference.

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