Reflections of My Heart: The Dance

I wrote this poem in the early nineteen-eighties. It symbolizes all the lessons and all the experiences I have had as a disabled person. I spiritually and physically danced through each and every event in my life. Instead of making something a problem or an issue, I welcomed them all as paths to make myself a better person. And so I overcame every challenge in my way.

 

The Dance

My dances
Are like
Lyrics to songs
I wait
Only
For the right rhythm!

You can order my poetry collection, including this poem, here: Reflections of My Heart.


Original text and image ©2025 by Karen Lynn-Chlup. All rights reserved. Image of Karen Lynn-Chlup teaching dance at a senior center from her private collection.

Reflections of My Heart: Floor

I wrote this poem for my dance teacher, Al Gilbert. I was only three-and-a-half when he cupped my hand in his, while smiling and looking into my eyes. From that moment on, my life changed forever!

 

 

 

Floor

There stood a
Three-year-old child
In the middle of a
Wooden dance floor,
Lonely and scared
With heavy metal bars
Wrapped around her leg.

Then in came a man
With a quiet smile,
Asking the little girl
To take some steps
Towards him

Inwardly, the little girl
Trembled and thought
To herself…
“All right, but only
This time.”

The ribbon-dress girl
Walked for the man,
Limping an irregular
Rhythm with her locked
Knee and her paralyzed left arm

She, for the very first time
Felt different
She could hear sounds
Screaming in her ears and
She could see her imperfect
Body yelling to be let loose!

You can order my poetry collection, including this poem, here: Reflections of My Heart.

To learn more about the legendary Al Gilbert, see http://www.tapdancingresources.com/dancers/al-gilbert/.


Original text ©2025 by Karen Lynn-Chlup. All rights reserved. Image from Karen Lynn’s personal collection.

Reflections of My Heart: The Blackbird and the Moth

Photo of Tibetan blackbird

 

In 1984, my mentor, Robert, and I went for one of our walks. Above us, a blackbird soared, silhouetted against the blue sky, with something in its beak. The bird landed. We tip-toed as close as we could. As we approached it in the mid-morning sun, it flew back into the sky, a moth in its mouth. While saddening, we knew this for an ecological process of life.

 

The Blackbird and the Moth

The blackbird flew by
With a moth inside its beak
In the midday sun.

You can order my poetry collection, including this poem, here: Reflections of My Heart.


Original text ©2025 by Karen Lynn-Chlup. All rights reserved. Image by Tum kohinoor, CC BY-SA 4.0, via Wikimedia Commons.

Reflections of My Heart: That One Special Night

image of person's head in silhouette looking at a lighted candle

In the mid-1980s, when I was in my twenties and single, I met a man in one of my B’nai B’rith social groups. He was handsome, down to earth, and he captured my attention in a way other men had not. Something about him held my interest.

We kept exchanging glances, and I thought he might come over and talk to me, but he never did. I thought perhaps he might start a conversation that would lead to friendship, at the least. At other social gatherings, he always looked at me. I thought there might be some connection, and from the feelings I developed for him. Especially from those feelings. I even daydreamed about having a relationship with him.

But I was naïve, and didn’t have loads of experience in the dating world, even though I was told many times, ”You are so wise for your age.” And I would chuckle inside, wondering why.

Time passed. I grew up and nothing ever came of those glances, but still, this was a life-altering experience that helped me learn to be strong and empathetic. Unfortunately, many people push these kinds of experiences away. They bury them down deep within themselves and never face their emotions and heal. Or they toss them off as being nothing. But still the feeling remains, and so does the pain.

As for me, I wrote this poem, daydreaming of what a special night would be like.

That One Special Night

The room was tranquil,
The room was dark,
The room lit up
With your tender heart,

You kindled a candle,
And held me tight,
You touched my soul
With your sweet delight

Never did I know
A purer
Love than yours
Which could capture
My essence
And existence or both.

You can order my poetry collection, including this poem, here: Reflections of My Heart.


Original text ©2025 by Karen Lynn-Chlup. All rights reserved. Image by “Secrets” via Wikimedia Commons.

Reflections of My Heart: Swings at Play

Photo of two swings on a playground.

In 1983, I wrote this poem about my friend Robert, and how we truly nurtured each other’s thoughts and feelings, and knew how to let our inner child out to play. Every day, we took a walk to relax after our college classes got out. Robert, my mentor, went over what we had studied so I could retain the information I had learned, and he made it fun for me. Sometimes, we would relax by going to the library, choosing a book, and reading our hearts out. But, if we were near the swings in a park, we joyfully let our inner child out to play. It was the best way to relax and let go of all the stress from the day.

Those were sweet moments to recall.

Swings at Play

We looked across
The park that
Brisk, bright day.
We saw the swings begin to sway.

You looked to me,
And I to you,
Asking, what would you
Like to do?

I answered you
With a simple smile.

Let’s go play!
Let our child’s
Hearts play with desire

So we began…
We began to skip,
Then saunter.
Soon we were running
Carefree

And I,
I pranced,
Just to be me!

Dancing and swinging so high
Only to touch the silvery sky
Allowing the breeze to blow,
Forgetting my every woe

But then twilight came,
The sun began to set,
And no more could we play,
So, we played no more!

You can order my poetry collection, including this poem, here: Reflections of My Heart.


Original text ©2025 by Karen Lynn-Chlup. All rights reserved. Image by Brandon Couch via Wikimedia Commons.

Reflections of My Heart: Sweet Blades

Photo of grass blades

I wrote this poem in March 1981. I was searching, and felt as if I had been seeking all my life—for truth—for a reason why, and to rest for a while. Thus far, this feeling has been a constant reminder that I am an instrument in disguise.

Thank goodness, when I get down, I know how to get right back up. I have a willingness to see the light, to better my attitude, and to keep learning, growing, and giving back to others unconditionally.

As I have read, “What you seek, so shall you receive.”

Sweet Blades

Quietly, I speak out to the elements of nature.
I tell the earth’s grass of my disbelief in him,
And how desperately I want to breathe
The sweetness of its blades

How anxiously I’d like to
Feel the sun glowing in my shadow

Internally, I ask the God of Nature
To help me accept thy will
And not mine

I question my inner spirit…
I wonder if God is truly with me?
Will He come to pass?
Or pass me by?
So I pray

I pray with heart divine
I ask with all my might
Like a child’s prayers to the stars above

God of Nature, God above,
Be with me all the time!
Let me know that you are by my side,
No matter how many times I
Seek thy sweet divine!

You can order my poetry collection, including this poem, here: Reflections of My Heart.


Original text ©2025 by Karen Lynn-Chlup. All rights reserved. Image by Peter Balcerzak, CC BY-SA 3.0 via Wikimedia Commons.

Reflections of My Heart: Still Ablaze

Painting of the great fire of London, England.

I could have written this poem every day of my life. I wrote it in 1980, when spring had sprung. Nobody wanted to hear me—I was a crip you know, with cerebral palsy—to whatever degree you want to look at it. If truth be told, instead of being accepted, I was regarded as a paralyzed, weakened individual who was disabled and treated differently from other people in this world.

I was not considered a real human being who deserved respect and dignity. Instead, I was used for all the good qualities I had then and have now. When people finished using me, they tossed me aside, only to be used again, or trampled over, flattened by children stampeding in an Easter egg hunt. Oh ya. My prize—one lollipop.

And you know what? That really happened when I was only four years old. Yet I saw the sunshine through it all. I found out I didn’t want to be an angry human. Plus, I wanted to deal with the experience, release the hurt in my heart, and rise above it to become a kinder, more compassionate person.

Sitting outside on a beautiful day in 1980, looking back on that experience, the warm sunshine and fresh air soothed me. But just for a moment. Within me, the temperature rose to a boil, despite the cool breeze, and the inferno burst into a blaze. I had to deal with it.

Within me, the sparks fired fast, one after another. No words were spoken aloud, not even one. And not more than a minute went by. In the deep crevices of my soul, I had to breathe. I had to feel the pain and deal with the memories courageously. I and I alone had to feel my feelings, because I and I alone could put out my own fire.

I had to be the one to treat myself with kindness and compassion, to start the process of forgiveness. If I didn’t, and I couldn’t pick up my broken pieces and start over again, I’d live with pent-up anger and resentment, the rest of my life. And I’d spread the pain by blaming others.

More than ever, I had to put all this to rest, and love and help myself. I had to nurture and change my thoughts, to bless myself, to breathe, and face everything—and let go of the hurt and pain that triggered me. It was not too late.

 

Still Ablaze

The warm sun shone,
And the air was fresh all around,
But inside, the temperature rose

The cool, crisp elements
Brought sparks
Which turned into a cerise inferno

Words were not spoken
Sharp objects flew about
“Oh dear”, cried the young woman.
“I tried to save our house from fire”
But it was too late
All was lost
All that remained,
Was still ablaze!

You can order my poetry collection, including this poem, here: Reflections of My Heart.


Original text ©2025 by Karen Lynn-Chlup. All rights reserved. Image courtesy of WikiMedia Commons.  

Carving New Paths: How Young Adults with Disabilities Are Thriving in Business by Jillian Day

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Carving New Paths: How Young Adults with Disabilities Are Thriving in Business

By Jillian Day

[Editor’s note: Jillian Day created 508Assist.org to help people all across the web make their sites accessible to individuals with disabilities. A close family member, who has a visual impairment, had trouble finding a dinner recipe online that he could read easily. This inspired her to start 508Assist.org.When she’s not chasing after her little ones, Jillian enjoys being outside, whether she’s fishing, hiking, or geocaching with her family.]

The business world is often portrayed as fast-paced, cutthroat, and unforgiving—but that’s only one version of the story. For young adults with disabilities, the landscape comes with its own unique set of barriers, yet also a rising tide of possibilities. We’re living in an era where entrepreneurship is becoming more accessible, remote work is redefining the workplace, and diverse thinking is increasingly celebrated. What this means is that there’s never been a better time for young adults with disabilities to not just get by, but to thrive and lead with purpose.

Rewriting the Rules with Entrepreneurial Spirit
You don’t have to wait for someone to hand you a seat at the table when you can build your own. More and more young adults with disabilities are doing exactly that—starting businesses that align with their values, needs, and strengths. Entrepreneurship allows for flexibility, autonomy, and the chance to challenge the way traditional workplaces operate. Instead of adapting to outdated systems, they’re creating new models that are inclusive from the ground up.

Tech Is Leveling the Playing Field
If you’ve ever felt like the business world wasn’t designed with you in mind, technology is slowly flipping that script. Assistive tools, accessible software, and communication platforms make it easier to run meetings, collaborate globally, and work from just about anywhere. You can start a marketing agency from your kitchen table or manage a drop-shipping store without ever setting foot in a physical office. The tools are out there—you just need to find the ones that let you move the way you move.

Online Learning for Business Skills Advancement
Gaining a sharper understanding of how business works doesn’t always mean stepping away from your life to sit in a classroom. Enrolling in an online Master of Business Administration program gives you the tools to lead with purpose, from mastering strategic planning to making smart, data-backed decisions that move organizations forward. These programs are built with working professionals in mind, so you can grow your expertise without pausing your paycheck. With the right coursework and commitment, you’ll walk away equipped to navigate complex business landscapes with confidence.

Remote Work Isn’t a Trend—It’s a Game Changer
The pandemic forced a lot of companies to reevaluate what “workplace” really means, and that opened doors which were previously bolted shut. Remote work gives young adults with disabilities a chance to control their environments, limit unnecessary challenges, and focus on doing great work rather than performing for appearances. You can work in a hoodie, take breaks when you need them, and show your value based on results—not just face time.

Mentorship Can Be a Lifeline
No one should have to navigate the business world alone, especially when the map was never drawn with you in mind. Mentorship from someone who gets it—someone who’s lived experience mirrors your own in even the smallest ways—can be the difference between feeling stuck and moving forward. Whether it’s a fellow entrepreneur with a similar disability or an advocate who understands how to cut through red tape, the right mentor can help you avoid landmines and keep you focused on your goals.

Authenticity Is Your Advantage
Here’s the thing: pretending to be someone you’re not is exhausting and unsustainable. Your lived experiences bring a perspective to the table that most people don’t have, and that’s powerful. Whether you’re pitching an idea, building a brand, or applying for a position, leaning into who you are isn’t just the right thing to do—it’s your competitive edge. Authenticity resonates. People remember it. Businesses are finally catching on to the fact that different doesn’t mean less—it often means better.

Finding the Right Communities Makes All the Difference
You don’t have to brave this road solo. There are thriving communities—online and off—that are built around support, shared experiences, and opportunity. From Slack groups for disabled freelancers to LinkedIn circles centered on inclusive entrepreneurship, these spaces exist to uplift and connect. You can ask for advice, share wins, learn new skills, or even find your next collaborator. Tapping into the right circles can take your career from isolated to inspired.

Taking Up Your Own Space
Maybe you’ve been taught to be quiet, to stay small, to wait your turn. Forget that. You’re not here to be grateful for scraps—you’re here to bring something original and necessary to the table. Whether that’s through launching your own business, leading within an existing company, or just doing your job in a way only you can, you have every right to take up space in this world. Own your story. Use your voice. Let the business world bend toward you for once.


There’s no one-size-fits-all approach to thriving in business, especially if you’re navigating a disability. But here’s what’s true: the world is shifting. Accessibility is no longer a side note—it’s becoming central to innovation, leadership, and culture. That means your presence isn’t just valid, it’s valuable. Keep pushing. Keep building. Because you don’t just belong in the business world—you’re helping redefine what it means to succeed in it.

Discover the transformative power of support and empowerment at Whispers of Hope, where Karen Lynn-Chlup inspires individuals with disabilities and their families to embrace a world of possibilities.

 

Reflections of My Heart: Spring Delights

Photo of spring flowers

I wrote this poem because I love nature, not just flowers, but the beauty of it all, and what it does to me.

When I was very little, I noticed when I was outside observing, I would make little or no noise. My soul quieted. I slowed down and listened. Everything else faded away. I stood or sat and listened, listened to the birds, the trees, the sounds of planes overhead or cars driving by. People talking, and me watching people. Then, all of a sudden, I was alone with myself. Not a care in the world.

I found this peace, this peace, ‘this thing’ that used to, and still does, come over me. Relaxing into that moment of stillness, I forgot everything. I simply was, existing in the here and now, happily observing in the moment, joyously free.

Now that I’m writing this, I can tell you my breathing quiets. I feel this soothing sensation consoling me. All my anxiety and tension dissolve while sitting, watching, only to be.

Back one spring day in the 1970s, I put this experience into these words.

Spring Delights

Oh, how lovely spring’s time is,
Flowers blooming,
Sycamore trees swaying,
Shades of light splattering the sky

So I sit and ponder,
Seeking nature’s unique sanctuary.

Butterfly wings, and crawly things,
Birds that fly far, far away.

But you know what?
If I could choose anything…
I would choose to be
Spring delight!

You can order my poetry collection, including this poem, here: Reflections of My Heart.


Original text ©2025 by Karen Lynn-Chlup. All rights reserved. Image by Ann Burgess via Wikimedia.

The Job Hunt with a Disability: Real Tips, No Fluff by Jillian Day

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[Editor’s note: Jillian Day created 508Assist.org to help people all across the web make their sites accessible to individuals with disabilities. A close family member, who has a visual impairment, had trouble finding a dinner recipe online that he could read easily. This inspired her to start 508Assist.org. When she’s not chasing after her little ones, Jillian enjoys being outside, whether she’s fishing, hiking, or geocaching with her family.]

The Job Hunt with a Disability: Real Tips, No Fluff

There’s nothing easy about the job search in general—but throw a disability into the mix, and suddenly you’re playing the game on hard mode without a rulebook. Whether you’re fresh out of college, re-entering the workforce, or pivoting careers, you’re probably juggling more than the average applicant. You’re not just looking for a job—you’re looking for a place that understands what you bring to the table and has actually made room for it. Here’s some practical advice that’s been earned, learned, and passed along by folks who’ve been in your shoes.

Start With Employers Who Get It
Not every company is on the same page when it comes to accessibility, and that’s putting it politely. Rather than burn energy convincing someone that inclusive hiring is worth their time, focus your search on organizations that already walk that walk. Check out job boards like AbilityJobs or Inclusively, or go through workforce development programs that have relationships with disability-friendly employers. And if you’re ever unsure about a company, stalk their website—look at their diversity statements, benefits, and leadership bios. The truth is usually buried somewhere in plain sight.

Remember Your Story Is Your Superpower
You’ve probably been told to “frame your disability as a strength,” which can sound like branding nonsense when all you’re trying to do is be taken seriously. But here’s the twist: you’ve been solving problems, adapting, and negotiating with the world in ways that most people never have to think about. That’s resilience, creativity, and patience all rolled into one. You don’t need to perform inspiration, but if you can talk authentically about what you’ve learned from your experience—and how that shows up in your work ethic or approach—you’re already setting yourself apart.

Open a Business of Your Own
Sometimes the best move isn’t finding the right employer—it’s becoming your own. Starting a business when you have a disability comes with its own set of considerations, but it also means building a space that works for you from the ground up. You’ll need to map out your business idea, register it with your state, apply for an EIN, and set up a proper business bank account. Forming an LLC can protect your personal assets while adding legitimacy to your venture, and you can cut costs by self-filing or using a highly rated online formation service—learn how to start an LLC in California with ZenBusiness.

Know When (and If) to Disclose
This one’s tricky. There’s no one-size-fits-all answer when it comes to disclosing a disability. Some folks prefer to be upfront during the application process to advocate for accommodations early. Others wait until there’s a job offer or onboarding. The right move depends on your comfort level, the nature of your disability, and whether you need immediate accommodations to get through interviews. Just remember: you’re never legally required to disclose unless you’re requesting specific support. And if a company reacts poorly? That’s data. Better to find out early than six months into the job.

Get Real About the Application Game
The job application process wasn’t built for nuance. Automated systems screen resumes, recruiters skim for keywords, and nobody’s reading between the lines. So play the game, but play it on your terms. Tailor your resume with words straight from the job posting, keep your cover letters sharp and specific, and don’t over-explain gaps unless it’s helpful. If you use assistive tech, make sure your resume is formatted in a way that won’t confuse applicant tracking systems—clean fonts, no columns, and standard file types go a long way.

Interview on Your Terms
Interviews can be weird for anyone, but if you need accommodations—extra time, a specific format, an interpreter—it adds another layer. Ask for what you need in writing beforehand, and don’t feel like you’re “asking for special treatment.” You’re requesting access, not a favor. Also, don’t be afraid to flip the script in the interview. Ask them how they support employees with disabilities. If their answer is vague or defensive, that’s a red flag, not your cue to shrink yourself.

Tap Into Community Wisdom
You don’t have to go through this alone. Online communities, local advocacy groups, and professional networks specifically for people with disabilities are goldmines of support. These are the folks who can tip you off to which companies are actually inclusive, share hacks for navigating annoying parts of the process, or just remind you that your frustration is valid. Follow disabled professionals on social media, join career forums, and attend webinars or job fairs tailored to your experience. Sometimes the best career coach is someone who’s just a few steps ahead of you on the path.

Don’t Let Rejection Rewrite Your Worth
Here’s the hardest part: you’re probably going to hear “no” more than you’d like. It’s not always about you—it’s often about bias, ignorance, or systems that aren’t built for real inclusion. Don’t internalize that. You are not the rejection emails. You are the persistence, the hustle, the skill set, and the perspective that can’t be replicated. And when it finally clicks—when the right employer sees all of that—it’s going to make every ounce of effort worth it.


The job search for people with disabilities isn’t just about finding work—it’s about finding dignity, autonomy, and a workplace that actually understands inclusion beyond the buzzwords. It’s tiring, yes. It’s unfair sometimes. But it’s also filled with possibility, especially when you start steering the process instead of being pushed through it. Keep showing up, keep asking questions, and don’t apologize for demanding more from the world of work. You’re not just trying to get in the door—you’re trying to reshape what the room looks like. And that matters more than most people realize.

Discover the transformative power of support and empowerment at Whispers of Hope, where Karen Lynn-Chlup inspires individuals with disabilities and their families to embrace a world of possibilities.