Reflections of My Heart: The Hands of Time

Photo of the Lansdowne Clock Tower

I wrote this poem in 1999 to an Australian friend who also didn’t want to stay in contact with me. I tried to reason and nurture him in his state of pain, but he wanted nothing of it. So I just had to let things be and let go.

 

 

The Hands of Time

If I could turn back
The clocks…
I would.

If I could stop time
In its movement…
I would change
The events of that day!

If I could take away
Your pain…
I would wipe
Your tears away

I can only
Love you,
Console you and
Comfort you
By wrapping you
In my blanket of
Tender loving care!

I can kiss away your sorrow
And be there

For you…

I can lend you my strength,
My support,
My caring nature and loving ways…

But oh, how I hurt for you,
How my heart goes out to you…

I tried to talk to you,
I tried to reason with you,
By sharing
My own trials,
And my own tribulations…

I tried to intervene to prevent you
From making them yourself,
But you said
With conviction,
“Your mate
Would see you through”…

Now, look!
My shining star,

Once a happy,
Joyous soul.
Now sad,
With a cloud of
Unknown hanging
Over his sweet spirit.

You can order my poetry collection, including this poem, here: Reflections of My Heart.


Original text ©2025 by Karen Lynn-Chlup. All rights reserved. Image by Chris Downer via Wikimedia Commons.

Reflections of My Heart: The Dance

I wrote this poem in the early nineteen-eighties. It symbolizes all the lessons and all the experiences I have had as a disabled person. I spiritually and physically danced through each and every event in my life. Instead of making something a problem or an issue, I welcomed them all as paths to make myself a better person. And so I overcame every challenge in my way.

 

The Dance

My dances
Are like
Lyrics to songs
I wait
Only
For the right rhythm!

You can order my poetry collection, including this poem, here: Reflections of My Heart.


Original text and image ©2025 by Karen Lynn-Chlup. All rights reserved. Image of Karen Lynn-Chlup teaching dance at a senior center from her private collection.

Reflections of My Heart: Floor

I wrote this poem for my dance teacher, Al Gilbert. I was only three-and-a-half when he cupped my hand in his, while smiling and looking into my eyes. From that moment on, my life changed forever!

 

 

 

Floor

There stood a
Three-year-old child
In the middle of a
Wooden dance floor,
Lonely and scared
With heavy metal bars
Wrapped around her leg.

Then in came a man
With a quiet smile,
Asking the little girl
To take some steps
Towards him

Inwardly, the little girl
Trembled and thought
To herself…
“All right, but only
This time.”

The ribbon-dress girl
Walked for the man,
Limping an irregular
Rhythm with her locked
Knee and her paralyzed left arm

She, for the very first time
Felt different
She could hear sounds
Screaming in her ears and
She could see her imperfect
Body yelling to be let loose!

You can order my poetry collection, including this poem, here: Reflections of My Heart.

To learn more about the legendary Al Gilbert, see http://www.tapdancingresources.com/dancers/al-gilbert/.


Original text ©2025 by Karen Lynn-Chlup. All rights reserved. Image from Karen Lynn’s personal collection.

Reflections of My Heart: The Blackbird and the Moth

Photo of Tibetan blackbird

 

In 1984, my mentor, Robert, and I went for one of our walks. Above us, a blackbird soared, silhouetted against the blue sky, with something in its beak. The bird landed. We tip-toed as close as we could. As we approached it in the mid-morning sun, it flew back into the sky, a moth in its mouth. While saddening, we knew this for an ecological process of life.

 

The Blackbird and the Moth

The blackbird flew by
With a moth inside its beak
In the midday sun.

You can order my poetry collection, including this poem, here: Reflections of My Heart.


Original text ©2025 by Karen Lynn-Chlup. All rights reserved. Image by Tum kohinoor, CC BY-SA 4.0, via Wikimedia Commons.

Reflections of My Heart: That One Special Night

image of person's head in silhouette looking at a lighted candle

In the mid-1980s, when I was in my twenties and single, I met a man in one of my B’nai B’rith social groups. He was handsome, down to earth, and he captured my attention in a way other men had not. Something about him held my interest.

We kept exchanging glances, and I thought he might come over and talk to me, but he never did. I thought perhaps he might start a conversation that would lead to friendship, at the least. At other social gatherings, he always looked at me. I thought there might be some connection, and from the feelings I developed for him. Especially from those feelings. I even daydreamed about having a relationship with him.

But I was naïve, and didn’t have loads of experience in the dating world, even though I was told many times, ”You are so wise for your age.” And I would chuckle inside, wondering why.

Time passed. I grew up and nothing ever came of those glances, but still, this was a life-altering experience that helped me learn to be strong and empathetic. Unfortunately, many people push these kinds of experiences away. They bury them down deep within themselves and never face their emotions and heal. Or they toss them off as being nothing. But still the feeling remains, and so does the pain.

As for me, I wrote this poem, daydreaming of what a special night would be like.

That One Special Night

The room was tranquil,
The room was dark,
The room lit up
With your tender heart,

You kindled a candle,
And held me tight,
You touched my soul
With your sweet delight

Never did I know
A purer
Love than yours
Which could capture
My essence
And existence or both.

You can order my poetry collection, including this poem, here: Reflections of My Heart.


Original text ©2025 by Karen Lynn-Chlup. All rights reserved. Image by “Secrets” via Wikimedia Commons.

Reflections of My Heart: Swings at Play

Photo of two swings on a playground.

In 1983, I wrote this poem about my friend Robert, and how we truly nurtured each other’s thoughts and feelings, and knew how to let our inner child out to play. Every day, we took a walk to relax after our college classes got out. Robert, my mentor, went over what we had studied so I could retain the information I had learned, and he made it fun for me. Sometimes, we would relax by going to the library, choosing a book, and reading our hearts out. But, if we were near the swings in a park, we joyfully let our inner child out to play. It was the best way to relax and let go of all the stress from the day.

Those were sweet moments to recall.

Swings at Play

We looked across
The park that
Brisk, bright day.
We saw the swings begin to sway.

You looked to me,
And I to you,
Asking, what would you
Like to do?

I answered you
With a simple smile.

Let’s go play!
Let our child’s
Hearts play with desire

So we began…
We began to skip,
Then saunter.
Soon we were running
Carefree

And I,
I pranced,
Just to be me!

Dancing and swinging so high
Only to touch the silvery sky
Allowing the breeze to blow,
Forgetting my every woe

But then twilight came,
The sun began to set,
And no more could we play,
So, we played no more!

You can order my poetry collection, including this poem, here: Reflections of My Heart.


Original text ©2025 by Karen Lynn-Chlup. All rights reserved. Image by Brandon Couch via Wikimedia Commons.

Reflections of My Heart: Sweet Blades

Photo of grass blades

I wrote this poem in March 1981. I was searching, and felt as if I had been seeking all my life—for truth—for a reason why, and to rest for a while. Thus far, this feeling has been a constant reminder that I am an instrument in disguise.

Thank goodness, when I get down, I know how to get right back up. I have a willingness to see the light, to better my attitude, and to keep learning, growing, and giving back to others unconditionally.

As I have read, “What you seek, so shall you receive.”

Sweet Blades

Quietly, I speak out to the elements of nature.
I tell the earth’s grass of my disbelief in him,
And how desperately I want to breathe
The sweetness of its blades

How anxiously I’d like to
Feel the sun glowing in my shadow

Internally, I ask the God of Nature
To help me accept thy will
And not mine

I question my inner spirit…
I wonder if God is truly with me?
Will He come to pass?
Or pass me by?
So I pray

I pray with heart divine
I ask with all my might
Like a child’s prayers to the stars above

God of Nature, God above,
Be with me all the time!
Let me know that you are by my side,
No matter how many times I
Seek thy sweet divine!

You can order my poetry collection, including this poem, here: Reflections of My Heart.


Original text ©2025 by Karen Lynn-Chlup. All rights reserved. Image by Peter Balcerzak, CC BY-SA 3.0 via Wikimedia Commons.

Reflections of My Heart: Still Ablaze

Painting of the great fire of London, England.

I could have written this poem every day of my life. I wrote it in 1980, when spring had sprung. Nobody wanted to hear me—I was a crip you know, with cerebral palsy—to whatever degree you want to look at it. If truth be told, instead of being accepted, I was regarded as a paralyzed, weakened individual who was disabled and treated differently from other people in this world.

I was not considered a real human being who deserved respect and dignity. Instead, I was used for all the good qualities I had then and have now. When people finished using me, they tossed me aside, only to be used again, or trampled over, flattened by children stampeding in an Easter egg hunt. Oh ya. My prize—one lollipop.

And you know what? That really happened when I was only four years old. Yet I saw the sunshine through it all. I found out I didn’t want to be an angry human. Plus, I wanted to deal with the experience, release the hurt in my heart, and rise above it to become a kinder, more compassionate person.

Sitting outside on a beautiful day in 1980, looking back on that experience, the warm sunshine and fresh air soothed me. But just for a moment. Within me, the temperature rose to a boil, despite the cool breeze, and the inferno burst into a blaze. I had to deal with it.

Within me, the sparks fired fast, one after another. No words were spoken aloud, not even one. And not more than a minute went by. In the deep crevices of my soul, I had to breathe. I had to feel the pain and deal with the memories courageously. I and I alone had to feel my feelings, because I and I alone could put out my own fire.

I had to be the one to treat myself with kindness and compassion, to start the process of forgiveness. If I didn’t, and I couldn’t pick up my broken pieces and start over again, I’d live with pent-up anger and resentment, the rest of my life. And I’d spread the pain by blaming others.

More than ever, I had to put all this to rest, and love and help myself. I had to nurture and change my thoughts, to bless myself, to breathe, and face everything—and let go of the hurt and pain that triggered me. It was not too late.

 

Still Ablaze

The warm sun shone,
And the air was fresh all around,
But inside, the temperature rose

The cool, crisp elements
Brought sparks
Which turned into a cerise inferno

Words were not spoken
Sharp objects flew about
“Oh dear”, cried the young woman.
“I tried to save our house from fire”
But it was too late
All was lost
All that remained,
Was still ablaze!

You can order my poetry collection, including this poem, here: Reflections of My Heart.


Original text ©2025 by Karen Lynn-Chlup. All rights reserved. Image courtesy of WikiMedia Commons.  

Carving New Paths: How Young Adults with Disabilities Are Thriving in Business by Jillian Day

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Carving New Paths: How Young Adults with Disabilities Are Thriving in Business

By Jillian Day

[Editor’s note: Jillian Day created 508Assist.org to help people all across the web make their sites accessible to individuals with disabilities. A close family member, who has a visual impairment, had trouble finding a dinner recipe online that he could read easily. This inspired her to start 508Assist.org.When she’s not chasing after her little ones, Jillian enjoys being outside, whether she’s fishing, hiking, or geocaching with her family.]

The business world is often portrayed as fast-paced, cutthroat, and unforgiving—but that’s only one version of the story. For young adults with disabilities, the landscape comes with its own unique set of barriers, yet also a rising tide of possibilities. We’re living in an era where entrepreneurship is becoming more accessible, remote work is redefining the workplace, and diverse thinking is increasingly celebrated. What this means is that there’s never been a better time for young adults with disabilities to not just get by, but to thrive and lead with purpose.

Rewriting the Rules with Entrepreneurial Spirit
You don’t have to wait for someone to hand you a seat at the table when you can build your own. More and more young adults with disabilities are doing exactly that—starting businesses that align with their values, needs, and strengths. Entrepreneurship allows for flexibility, autonomy, and the chance to challenge the way traditional workplaces operate. Instead of adapting to outdated systems, they’re creating new models that are inclusive from the ground up.

Tech Is Leveling the Playing Field
If you’ve ever felt like the business world wasn’t designed with you in mind, technology is slowly flipping that script. Assistive tools, accessible software, and communication platforms make it easier to run meetings, collaborate globally, and work from just about anywhere. You can start a marketing agency from your kitchen table or manage a drop-shipping store without ever setting foot in a physical office. The tools are out there—you just need to find the ones that let you move the way you move.

Online Learning for Business Skills Advancement
Gaining a sharper understanding of how business works doesn’t always mean stepping away from your life to sit in a classroom. Enrolling in an online Master of Business Administration program gives you the tools to lead with purpose, from mastering strategic planning to making smart, data-backed decisions that move organizations forward. These programs are built with working professionals in mind, so you can grow your expertise without pausing your paycheck. With the right coursework and commitment, you’ll walk away equipped to navigate complex business landscapes with confidence.

Remote Work Isn’t a Trend—It’s a Game Changer
The pandemic forced a lot of companies to reevaluate what “workplace” really means, and that opened doors which were previously bolted shut. Remote work gives young adults with disabilities a chance to control their environments, limit unnecessary challenges, and focus on doing great work rather than performing for appearances. You can work in a hoodie, take breaks when you need them, and show your value based on results—not just face time.

Mentorship Can Be a Lifeline
No one should have to navigate the business world alone, especially when the map was never drawn with you in mind. Mentorship from someone who gets it—someone who’s lived experience mirrors your own in even the smallest ways—can be the difference between feeling stuck and moving forward. Whether it’s a fellow entrepreneur with a similar disability or an advocate who understands how to cut through red tape, the right mentor can help you avoid landmines and keep you focused on your goals.

Authenticity Is Your Advantage
Here’s the thing: pretending to be someone you’re not is exhausting and unsustainable. Your lived experiences bring a perspective to the table that most people don’t have, and that’s powerful. Whether you’re pitching an idea, building a brand, or applying for a position, leaning into who you are isn’t just the right thing to do—it’s your competitive edge. Authenticity resonates. People remember it. Businesses are finally catching on to the fact that different doesn’t mean less—it often means better.

Finding the Right Communities Makes All the Difference
You don’t have to brave this road solo. There are thriving communities—online and off—that are built around support, shared experiences, and opportunity. From Slack groups for disabled freelancers to LinkedIn circles centered on inclusive entrepreneurship, these spaces exist to uplift and connect. You can ask for advice, share wins, learn new skills, or even find your next collaborator. Tapping into the right circles can take your career from isolated to inspired.

Taking Up Your Own Space
Maybe you’ve been taught to be quiet, to stay small, to wait your turn. Forget that. You’re not here to be grateful for scraps—you’re here to bring something original and necessary to the table. Whether that’s through launching your own business, leading within an existing company, or just doing your job in a way only you can, you have every right to take up space in this world. Own your story. Use your voice. Let the business world bend toward you for once.


There’s no one-size-fits-all approach to thriving in business, especially if you’re navigating a disability. But here’s what’s true: the world is shifting. Accessibility is no longer a side note—it’s becoming central to innovation, leadership, and culture. That means your presence isn’t just valid, it’s valuable. Keep pushing. Keep building. Because you don’t just belong in the business world—you’re helping redefine what it means to succeed in it.

Discover the transformative power of support and empowerment at Whispers of Hope, where Karen Lynn-Chlup inspires individuals with disabilities and their families to embrace a world of possibilities.

 

Reflections of My Heart: Spring Delights

Photo of spring flowers

I wrote this poem because I love nature, not just flowers, but the beauty of it all, and what it does to me.

When I was very little, I noticed when I was outside observing, I would make little or no noise. My soul quieted. I slowed down and listened. Everything else faded away. I stood or sat and listened, listened to the birds, the trees, the sounds of planes overhead or cars driving by. People talking, and me watching people. Then, all of a sudden, I was alone with myself. Not a care in the world.

I found this peace, this peace, ‘this thing’ that used to, and still does, come over me. Relaxing into that moment of stillness, I forgot everything. I simply was, existing in the here and now, happily observing in the moment, joyously free.

Now that I’m writing this, I can tell you my breathing quiets. I feel this soothing sensation consoling me. All my anxiety and tension dissolve while sitting, watching, only to be.

Back one spring day in the 1970s, I put this experience into these words.

Spring Delights

Oh, how lovely spring’s time is,
Flowers blooming,
Sycamore trees swaying,
Shades of light splattering the sky

So I sit and ponder,
Seeking nature’s unique sanctuary.

Butterfly wings, and crawly things,
Birds that fly far, far away.

But you know what?
If I could choose anything…
I would choose to be
Spring delight!

You can order my poetry collection, including this poem, here: Reflections of My Heart.


Original text ©2025 by Karen Lynn-Chlup. All rights reserved. Image by Ann Burgess via Wikimedia.