It is very easy as a disabled person to have a vague set of ideas for what you want to accomplish. For all of us, it is more practical to find a reason for why we do the things we do, and why we say the things we say. Any achievement that one accomplishes requires risk-taking, it requires drive, and it requires self- motivation.
It is safe and fun and easy just to do any ol’ little thing our sweet little heart desires. Still another, to feel the comfort of the moment. But it is a whole other story to get up off your buttocks and take action. It is a whole other story to make your life happen. Including taking responsibility for yourself without blaming others.
Life will not always be a bowl of cherries. There will be times where and when we have to say things we rather not, set boundaries, and be strong enough to take rejection when rejection comes and not be liked by others. Life will teach you how to be true to yourself.